We must learn to let go in order to stay in peace. It’s when we hold on to worry, hurt and negative feelings that we feel so much of the weight of life’s burdens. This is something I’ve learned and believe me still working on. I’m not saying it’s easy, but each and every one of us deserves to be in peace and that peace is our responsibility to ourselves. Stuff is messed up in the world, but that doesn’t mean that we should let that stuff mess us up. It is necessary to forgive ourselves just as we forgive others. When we let the external defeat our internal then we walk around with twisted faces and twisted ideas. And trust me a twisted face is not sexy.A good conversation! Yep, to be able to converse with another individual of the opposite sex without hatred, gossip, cursing and lies is sure nuff sexy to me. Wait, don’t get me wrong I’m looking as well, but if the mouth opens and garbage falls out it's over. A nicely groomed person will stick out in the crowd, but so will a disheveled one. Don't get me wrong, a good conversation is fantastic with anyone! What comes out of a person’s mouth speaks for that individual.
Imagine you’re out alone some place just chilling and taking in the atmosphere when you’re approached by someone that you’ve noticed more than a few times because they’re just too fine not to be noticed. You make eye contact, your heartbeat races as they approach you, but before you can finish plastering on that winning smile of yours, you’re greeted with, “g-- d---, you’re a-- is fine! What the f--- is your name!?“ Huh, what!? Poof!Remember, you only get one chance to make a first impression. Communication is key in any type of relationship. To be able to chat about world affairs and varied ideas is very enticing. Words are lures just as bait is to fish. You can catch or repel with them.
Being able to express your thoughts, feelings and ideas in a constructive and positive light can save your life. and possibly someone else's.
Your mouth and ears are sexy! Being able to listen to another’s point of view even if it’s different from yours is sexy, because that means you’re open and willing to share. Who knows, you may learn something. If we can’t exchange opposing ideas then we are selfish. And when we refuse to listen or even try to understand another’s point of view it breeds conflict. Not saying you have to agree, but understanding is important, or least trying. That’s part of the world's problem, why there are so many killings and so many wars and neither is sexy.